In Kerala, the rise of nuclear families and the younger generation’s migration in search of better opportunities have increasingly left the elderly to care for themselves. This trend is rapidly becoming the norm. Efforts to address this issue are evolving. What was once a charitable endeavor—establishing old age homes—has now transformed into a lucrative business opportunity for entrepreneurs. Numerous such facilities have emerged across Kerala, offering varied pricing, amenities, and locations to cater to the diverse preferences of the elderly. Some of these living spaces have been established by retirees from the same organizations or trade associations, creating familiar environments for their peers.

The Origin: One unique living arrangement that has evolved over the past decade is the brainchild of Dr. C Thomas Abraham, a former Professor of English, National Service Scheme coordinator at M.G. University, and head of its Life Long Learning and Extension Department. Dr. Abraham is the promoter of Theme-Centered Interaction (TCI) in India. In 2015, he founded the Synergy TCI Forum for senior citizens, which brought together a community of around 80 members for regular activities and interactions.

The Journey: The Synergy forum decided to deepen its commitment to communal living. By 2019, 15 members including retired Engineers, Doctors, Professors, and ex-servicemen, registered as the Society for Alternate Living. Their vision culminated in creating Synergy Homes, pristinely located on the banks of the Lalam river in Anthyalam village four kilometers from Pala Town in Kottayam district, Kerala.  It was inaugurated on 2 November 2024. As Prof. Thomas Abraham aptly put it, “A community was built first, and then the buildings and living space.” This is what sets it apart from other living arrangements available today.

Synergy Homes comprises 15 self-contained houses, thoughtfully designed without individual compound walls or private kitchens, which were the essence of traditional Indian homes. Instead, residents share a common kitchen, creating a strong sense of community and fostering companionship. United by shared values, they actively participate in communal activities, nurturing a culture of mutual care and support around the clock.

Blue Zone: The book IKIGAI: Japanese Secrets to a Long and Happy Life highlights community living as a cornerstone for longevity and happiness. Expanding on this concept, a 1999 study introduced the term “Blue Zones” to describe regions worldwide where people live longer and maintain better health. A robust social network was identified as a key factor behind this phenomenon. In a world where aging is often accompanied by loneliness and reliance on home care, Synergy Homes has taken inspiration from these principles to establish its own “Blue Zone”—a haven of connection, support, and well-being that redefines aging.

Volunteers to be interdependent: In his influential book The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People, Stephen R. Covey outlines a framework for personal and interpersonal growth, progressing from dependence to independence and ultimately to interdependence. Contrary to common perception, interdependence represents the pinnacle of maturity, where individuals contribute to and support one another’s well-being. This community has fully embraced the principle of interdependence, naming itself after the essence of Covey’s sixth habit, Synergize. This principle champions collaboration, where “1 + 1 becomes more than 2,” symbolizing their collective dedication to a life enriched by shared support, cooperation, and mutual growth.

Alternate model for the elderly: This initiative will benefit the 15 families directly participating and many others indirectly connected to the community. Synergy Homes is set to become a beacon of inspiration, offering a sustainable model for addressing the needs of Kerala’s growing elderly population. Let this endeavor pave the way for a transformative approach to senior living, providing a meaningful and dignified alternative for the aging community.

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